" You have to grow from inside out.None can teach you,none can make you spiritual.There is no other teacher but your soul ."
All knowledge is within one's self until he/she decides to uncover that wisdom sustained in him/herself.And one never acts towards the way of reform until he realises the need for it.Same was the case with me, i had been a spoilt brad(to be precise "Careless guy") unless i was stuck with bad relations , bad living style , bad health , bad GRADES , all was destructive my thoughts,my actions....then why to blame others,i realised ...there came a calling from inside and questioned ,"Where am i heading to?"......"Is this what i want?".....and then came a flood of emotions which shattered mine inside out,i felt as if i am standing naked infront of me.Its bitter to accept your failing...fortunetly i managed to do that.Previously i had commited to reform many times but failed in my attempts , this time i knew it was different issue altogether,it had struck my head and soul , more honestly MY EGO.Whatever it be , but it made me....
"Self observation brings man to the realization of the necessity of self change.And in observing himself a man notices that self-observation itself brings about certain changes in his inner processes.He begins to understand self observation is an instrument of self-change,means of awakening."
So guys start pointing all the fingers (optimistically) towards you,never ever blame others for your deeds bcoz as u start doing that u'll get closer to yourself and uncover d wisdom sustained in u.